{"id":6763,"date":"2018-11-24T00:19:41","date_gmt":"2018-11-24T08:19:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.amyglaze.com\/?p=6763"},"modified":"2018-11-26T13:27:32","modified_gmt":"2018-11-26T21:27:32","slug":"turning-45-embracing-miracles-and-thankfully-giving-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.amyglaze.com\/turning-45-embracing-miracles-and-thankfully-giving-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Turning 45, Embracing Miracles and Thankfully Giving Away"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">As I sit here typing in the fourth hotel\/cabin\/place-other-than-home that I\u2019ve lived in during the last two weeks I am filled with a mixture of gratitude, deep aching loss for humanity, and a growing yet restrained excitement for this small active miracle growing inside me known currently as: Hettie Rose Hedayatpour.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><!-- PhotoBlocks for WordPress v1.2.6 free --><\/p>\n<style> #photoblocks-6 {width: 100%;} #photoblocks-6 .pb-block 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data-rowspan=\"1\" data-col=\"3\" data-row=\"2\" data-valign=\"center\" data-halign=\"center\" data-type=\"image\" data-ratio=\"1.3333333333333\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"pb-image skip-lazy \" src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAEAAAABCAYAAAAfFcSJAAAADUlEQVR42mNkYPhfDwAChwGA60e6kgAAAABJRU5ErkJggg==\" data-pb-source=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.amyglaze.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_1644.jpg?fit=1024%2C768\" alt=\"\"> <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.amyglaze.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_1644.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"><\/noscript> <a class=\"pb-link \" data-magnific=\"gallery-6\" data-caption=\"\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amyglaze.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/photoblocks-grid-gallery\/includes\/..\/public\/pbm.php?zc=4&#038;max=1600&#038;src=https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.amyglaze.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_1644.jpg?fit=1024%2C768\"> <\/a> <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"photoblocks-fancybox-6\"><\/div>\n<p><script>jQuery(function () { var p = new PhotoBlocks({ selector: \"#photoblocks-6\", columns: 4, padding: 10, resizer: \"\", image_quality: 80, disable_below: 320, imageFactor: 1.5, on: { before: function () { }, after: function () { }, refresh: function () { } }, mobile_layout: [], lazy: false, debug: false }); jQuery(\"#photoblocks-6\").magnificPopup({ delegate: \".pb-block:not(.pb-filtered) [data-magnific]\", type: \"image\", gallery: { enabled: true, preload: [0,2] }, image: { titleSrc: 'data-caption' }, mainClass: \"mfp-6\" }); });<\/script><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Blogging is basically Dumbledore\u2019s &#8216;Pensive&#8217; where one can pull out thoughts and memories with a magic wand and put them in a pool for safe keeping. Lately, the fears and hopes I\u2019m facing, feel like a \u2018Pensive Vitaprep\u2019 where contrasting experiences are whirled together leaving me with a fowl tasting smoothie. I cannot feel happy for myself when a renowned journalist\u2019s fingers are cut off, or expect anyone to be elated over my outrageously crazy against-all-odds baby miracle when families are separated at the Border.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">My happiness is so small in comparison to the extreme suffering of other human beings. I want to share the beauty of my unplanned vacation\/Baby Moon but I am struck with the sorrow of complete devastation for those that couldn\u2019t escape the Camp Fires and those that did but who lost everything. I feel guilty for my little vacay to get away from the hazardous smoke in the Bay Area while others had to suffer through it, even though it greatly effected my daughter Layla. Nothing feels right these days. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So you see, I have news! I have recipes! I have adventures! But it\u2019s all so trivial and untimely in light of a world and a country headed towards moral destruction and undeniable human and civil rights violations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Am I alone here? Is anyone having problems reckoning what\u2019s going on in the world with their own personal lives? Am I the only person who can\u2019t separate the daily atrocities on the news with personal happiness? It\u2019s overwhelming. How can one person, with little resources, make a difference? And yet, here I am today getting ready to celebrate Thanksgiving, so I write the following, with the objective that perhaps my story of hope will provide a brief respite this holiday weekend&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Lourdes, a highly sought after Home Care Professional in our neighborhood, who I have employed for years with her team of expert women, share each other&#8217;s company before our daily routines begin once every two weeks. Like me, Lourdes had an unexpected baby in her early 40\u2019s and we often talk about the ups and downs of being older moms. Besides being a busy business owner, Lourdes is also active in her Church\u2019s outreach to low-income Moms and I support her efforts in whatever ways I can.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">On one particular Thursday, Lourdes arrives with her team and we chit chat sharing a cup of coffee before we each have to go our ways. She asks me point blank: <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cSo Amy, when are you going to have another baby?\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cAre you kidding??!? I\u2019m so old and so sleep deprived, I just don\u2019t think that\u2019s in our future.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cYou know,\u201d She says with a wry smile, \u201cAs soon as you donate your baby stuff, you\u2019ll get pregnant again. I promise! \u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cWell, I\u2019m not sure that\u2019s even possible, or that I even want that, but I\u2019m more than happy to donate baby stuff. I\u2019ve kept clothes and toys for a long time now thinking there might be another, but it\u2019s time to move on\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cSure, I can come by this weekend and take what you don\u2019t want.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cGreat, thank you!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I pack up Layla in the car and head to her French nursery school across town singing \u201cFr\u00e8re Jaques\u201d all the way, filing away my conversation with Lourdes. It is time to clear the cobwebs and even though it would be nice to have another baby, we are super happy with the one we\u2019ve got and count ourselves lucky to have had her so late in life, especially after two late second term miscarriages. And I\u2019m back working with restaurants, creating recipes at home, writing, taking photography lessons, volunteering at Layla\u2019s school and everything seems to be moving along in life \u2013 no need to go back to a year of pregnancy bedrest and constant medical checkups and endless anxiety <i>or<\/i> another two years of sleep deprivation. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Nope. This little family is complete, thank you very much. And frankly, it was complete before Layla arrived. She just happened to make it that much bigger and brighter. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Shortly after Layla\u2019s miraculous arrival we considered trying for another baby because we didn\u2019t want her to be alone in the world. We saw a specialist that told us we were too old and that we would need to do IVF and use a donor egg even though \u201cwe looked good for our ages\u201d. It wasn\u2019t the right choice for us. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">One June afternoon, I\u2019m taking a nap next to Layla and I wake up in the middle of it, levitating a few inches from the bed and look down at my body to see that I\u2019m glowing green all the way down to my toes. Alien abduction? Acid flashback? Perhaps. But it\u2019s a pleasant experience \u2013 my entire body is radiating an incredible bright green. It feels so good, so fresh, so youthful. I could be the spokes person for an Irish Spring commercial, it\u2019s that ridiculously joyous! I fall back asleep no problem and when I wake up I can\u2019t get the little green hallucination out of my mind. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Nine days later I\u2019m dry heaving over a toliet bowl wondering what on God\u2019s Earth I did to deserve such a nasty stomach bug. I go to my doctor, who enlightens me about morning sickness (which I never had with Layla) and he confirms via ultrasound that I am indeed pregnant, even though it is too early to really see anything. I leave excited, scared, and disbelieving. I go home and take four more tests that strongly confirm it. Ok. I guess I\u2019m pregnant. At 44. I thought this wasn\u2019t possible?!?!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">A week later I go back to my doctor for another ultra sound. This time the news isn\u2019t good. Using his archaic machine that never gives a clear picture, he tells me that that there is no baby inside the gestational sac and that I will miscarry. He offers to give me medication to speed up the process. I ask him: \u201cBut I\u2019m so sick, how can there not be a baby? This pregnancy feels stronger than any I\u2019ve had before?\u201d He tells me that the pregnancy hormones are still going strong and that soon enough my body will recognize there is no baby and begin the un-fun process of renewal. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I say \u201cno\u201d to the drugs and decide to let nature take it\u2019s course, and I leave depressed but still surprised that we even got pregnant for a little bit considering all the loud voices around us saying it would not be possible. And, for the life of me, I just can\u2019t get that little green dream out of my head. I share the sad news with my husband and we decide once again, that our little family is perfect as is. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Another week goes by and I am <i>so<\/i> sick and <i>sooooo<\/i> fatigued and I have a gut feeling that the doctor\u2019s diagnosis is wrong. I return for yet another ultra sound to see what exactly is going on. He begins to try and describe the blurry picture on the screen and assert once again that there is no baby when I stop him and exclaim \u2013 \u201cYes there is! I see a heartbeat! I see it!\u201d At which point he also admits with surprise that there is a little baby. With the disclaimer, \u201cIt\u2019s a good thing I didn\u2019t give you that medication.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">He\u2019s not my doctor anymore&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I\u2019m a Halloween baby and I\u2019ve always loved the creativity and harvest bounty that my birthday month signals. October in the Bay Area is the month where Summer fruit is coming to a close, yet still sweet\u00a0&amp; bountiful and Winter squash is done curing in the fields. Late harvest corn and dry farmed tomatoes overflow the farmer\u2019s markets alongside tall stalks of brussel sprouts and giant globe artichokes. It is a great month to get going in the kitchen and I\u2019m determined to create a recipe a day before my birthday. Now with a two-year-old who LOVES to bake, the idea of making all those fun creepy cool cupcakes and pumpkin-y treats is exciting once again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">But no, my recipe goal attempt is sadly unattainable. Layla brings home the flu from one of her little Frenchy nursery school co-conspirators and our entire family is laid out flat. All of us. Too bad Little Bean, our Cairn Terrier can\u2019t cook. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I normally don\u2019t get sick. I have never missed a day of work due to sickness \u2013 injury from cooking yes (like the time the handle came off an enormous pot of boiling salted water at Le Bernardin and burned the flesh off the top of my foot), flu or winter cold \u2013 no. My body simply attacks anything foreign. My body goes apeshit when it registers an intruder. It really doesn\u2019t matter if the\u00a0&#8220;intruder&#8221; is wanted. I have an overactive immune system and it\u2019s not necessarily a good thing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I spend three weeks, mostly in bed with the flu. My husband suffers the same. Layla has the mildest symptoms probably because we were smart enough to give her the flu shot, but she\u2019s still having difficulty breathing and sleeping. We emerge from our sickbeds briefly to celebrate my 45th birthday before all of us end up with secondary infections. Brutal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And then just as our lung infections are beginning to clear, the Camp Fire devastates Northern California burning 80 football fields a minute (hard to comprehend that statistic, I know) and our family is left again struggling to breathe in the hazardous aftermath of smoke that has made its way, the short distance, from Paradise to the Bay Area.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Time for an unplanned Baby Moon? We head South to Monterey where the air is clear even though we know it\u2019s late second trimester and the danger time during our pregnancy. 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She puts her hands to the glass of the enormous deep sea tank and a gigantic fish comes up and stares at her for a full minute. She stares back without flinching. We watch octopuses slink around their aquariums, 7-gill sharks zoom-a-zoom-zoom and we stick our hands in man-made tide pools pulling out kelp and hermit crabs. This is by far, the most exhilarating living museum she has ever been to. I\u2019m not sure that Hettie Rose can see anything but she sure is kicking the whole way through so it must be fun for her too. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Back at the hotel, located right on the beach, we grab shovel &amp; bucket and hit the sand looking for tiny crabs buried just below the ebbing tide. Layla searches for sand dollars and little treasures while I try to keep up with her pace and hold on to her every time the tide rushes over her feet sinking her little body deeper into the sand. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We relax during dinner at Salt Wood, with rising star Chef David Baron at the helm. He\u2019s a friend of ours and a father with two kids so he takes a little extra time to make sure Layla is fed-up with asparagus cooked in a silky miso butter broth and real house-made egg pasta drenched in homemade butter and shaved Parmesan. Layla picks the avocados out of my Caesar salad with David\u2019s delicious black garlic dressing and scrunches up her face when &#8216;Baba&#8217; tries to give her an oyster from the shell. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">David\u2019s unique food perspective effortlessly\u00a0weaves fresh and local California comfort casual with flavors of the Philippines and Nicaragua. His food is beautiful, generous in proportion, layered in flavor without skimping on process or purity of ingredient, and he uses a massive wood fire grill for whole fish preparations, sand dabs, and many other sea food offerings which I love. His fried chicken served alongside an enormous buttermilk biscuit smothered in honey butter, is just ridiculous. I don\u2019t know if he uses a pressure fryer, but I have never been able to achieve fried chicken quite like his \u2013 so crisp on the outside and so perfectly juicy inside. (And no, he does not sous-vide it or pre-bake it.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">After four nights in Monterey eating our way through David\u2019s menu and splitting our time between the Aquarium and the beach, we are beginning to miss home. We only\u00a0planned for a few days thinking the smoke would clear by now, but even Monterey is becoming questionable and our coughs have returned. We pack our gear and head further South to Big Sur to a cabin in the woods.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Although Layla has seen redwood trees, she hasn\u2019t seen <i>really old <\/i>redwood trees and she stands under an enormous one and looks up slightly reeling backward all the time singing: \u201cooooooooooooooooo\u201d. The wonder of nature is not lost on us either and we head to Pfeiffer beach after a little walk in the redwoods for some more sun and fun. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Normally Ramin and I would have a campfire going and be cooking morning, noon and night \u2013 leave it the Eagle Scout and Girl Scout to whip up some delicious fiery feasts but, it just doesn\u2019t feel right to light up considering the smokey air. So we head to one of our favorite little spots, Big Sur Bakery, which has been a well loved restaurant for a long time now \u2013 my parents used to take me here when I was a kid! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The French restaurant manager\u00a0greets us in the morning with a \u201c<i>Bonjour, \u00e7a va \u00e7a va<\/i>? (Hello, how goes it?) and Layla offers back her version: \u201c<i>Boujee boujeee<\/i>!\u201d which makes him laugh and declare that \u201cLayla is just too cute.\u201d To which we agree whole heartedly. We sip rich roasted coffee in the cool morning marine layer and munch our way through the best tasting pastries I have ever had. 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The air in the Bay Area remains hazardous and schools close down. We spend a whole day trying to find another cabin in Big Sur to extend our stay \u2013 why not?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u2013 we\u2019ve already been away a week and a half, it would be silly to come home during the worst part of it! But there is nothing available. And I mean nothing. Even the super expensive hotels are booked. There is no room at the inn \u2013\u00a0not in Avila, Big Sur, Carmel, or Monterey. This is unheard of. The entire Bay Area is invading our little getaway. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">With nowhere to stay, we decide to head home. 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is bad in Carmel, it\u2019s just old school. Every restaurant serves carbonara, Caesar salad, fried calamari and seafood blanketed in butter or cream sauce. Demetra Cafe, is the only Mediterranean restaurant (also old school) in town and the menu reminds me of my days as Exec Chef for Faz where pizza and pasta are served alongside Turkish and Persian offerings. It doesn\u2019t totally make sense to me, but the restaurant is packed and the owner is there playing his lute, serenading all the guests, urging people to dance and clap their hands and he is very sweet to Layla. Upon asking her name, he kisses her hands repeatedly which makes Layla blush and cling to me like a koala bear. I have a feeling that there is a Layla in his family, because the name makes his eyes light up when we tell him. Bashar is Syrian and some of his dishes slightly point to this, but not as many as I would personally like.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We eat juicy lamb kabobs and rice with a little too much turmeric (and not enough saffron) alongside a scoop up tzaziki and grilled pita bread. It\u2019s not Faz quality, but even still, it\u2019s tasty. Layla belly dances at the table to the music and she offers up her hands for Bashar to kiss when he comes to check on our table and then hides away in my hair once he does. To say that Layla has charmed the pants off the Bashar, is an understatement. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Layla is a pro diner. She\u2019s great in restaurants. This may come as no surprise but even with her limited palate, she will carefully poke her finger in new foods and taste to see if it\u2019s thumbs up or down, sit in a high chair and observe the servers and clientelle, pretend to read a menu and hold a conversation at two-year-old level for at least a portion of the meal before we inevitably turn on YouTube French songs or programs so that we can finish without rushing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Our vacation is coming to a close now that Northern California has forecasted rain for Thanksgiving. We pack our bags after our comfortable 3 night stay at Carmel Mission Inn, change into some new clothes that don\u2019t smell of smoke or cabin or two weeks <i>sans<\/i> laundry and head North to my Auntie\u2019s house in Santa Cruz where she will be hosting Thanksgiving dinner.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">My Aunt Suzie and Uncle Phill prepare the classic and delicious Thanksgiving dinner of my dearly departed Mother and Grandmother. 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Yum. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">All of my family is exceptionally educated, many are legitimately brilliant, and most are extremely liberal. Any heated political debate is normally about degrees of liberalism as opposed to Left vs. Right which is often frustrating but well intended. This Thanksgiving though, we steer clear of politics, it\u2019s been too dividing a year all around. Even though we all play on the same team, no one wants to go down that rabbit hole. We love our Country and our fellow Americans regardless of religion, ethnicity, sexual persuasion or political affiliation and this has been a truly depressing year to watch the degradation of democracy and deep divide our current leadership has entrenched. Everyone is ready just to focus on family and on Layla and leave out the noise for an evening.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We skip the individual \u201cwhat are you thankful for\u201d toast because we all feel that being thankful this year for something we have (and we have so much) unintentionally implies some one else\u2019s devastating loss. Instead, we raise our glasses to the rain helping to quench California&#8217;s thirst and extinguish the fires.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It goes without saying that I\u2019m always thankful for my family, especially my husband who keeps this little unit going strong \u2013 but some one lost their entire family in Paradise, some one lost their home in Malibu (and Florida and Cuba), and some one is not going to snuggle their little baby or even see them again at our Border.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">My cousins, Travis and Sophie, zero in on Layla and play with her for hours. Sophie brings out her old baby toys and Layla is in heaven having two super cool young people give her attention \u2013\u00a0much more fun than two old parents! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Hettie Rose is happy and kicking away. Little Bean is in a turkey comma. Ramin is relaxing and his funny ongoing banter with my expert story telling Uncle is keeping us all entertained. It is a lovely evening all around. We overstuff ourselves with pumpkin, pecan and apple pie, say our goodbyes, and leave to drive over the mountain and head home to Oakland. It will be good to sleep in our own bed tonight.\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\">The rain is in full force now and the air quality is back to breathable.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I take Layla from the car after our long journey home, sound asleep and carefully put her in bed. She briefly wakes up, smiles at the sight of her room, then falls fast asleep. Hettie Rose, who has been busy inside my tummy the whole evening is starting to wind down and I can tell she\u2019s ready for me to sleep. 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